Sorry for late posting. I have 3 points to make.
1) Lyricists with poetic license have written songs saying, "For you and I." For sure, this adds to the confusion on uses of "me" and "I."
It's easy to forget that for either nominative or objective case, the second person "you" is fine. Yet for first person, nominative case is "I" and objective case is "me."
2) It seems that while we traditionally use the first person in deference to others, present speakers no longer observe such courtesy. Instead of saying "My friends and I" they do not mind saying, "I and my friends" and maybe to avoid using "I" at the beginning of a sentence, they say, "Me and my friends."
3) It seems that the discussion on cavalierly vs. cavalier has become a bit lively and more.
I prefer your use of adverb over an adjective. Between a person and an act, I'd rather criticize an act. As Catholics should learn, we should hate sin but we pray for the sinner.
I want to thank you for reminders to join the forum. I try to login as often as I can. I enjoy your lessons and critiques and the enlightening contributions of forum participants.