I’m a heterosexual male and you can simply call me Joe. I feel much more comfortable being called by that nickname without any appellation.
You're right! I had overlooked formally replying to Mr. Dalisay’s posting when renzphotography beat me to the draw and asked him about the status of a short-story collection on the web. I therefore would like to apologize for having been distracted in that early exchange of postings in the Forum.
At any rate, vizvonvan, I’m a firm believer in the power of training seminars and workshops to update or upgrade one’s English-language skills; in fact, if I may be allowed a little plug, I do English grammar and usage seminars myself for companies and institutions every now and then. But to belatedly answer Mr. Dalisay’s big question: Do seminars and things of that sort really help? Definitely! As an officer of a major bank described one such seminar, “It was a ‘Eureka!’ moment for me!” This was because for so many years, she had thought that legalese was the one and only English suitable for business memos, letters, and reports, but the seminar-workshop she had just attended showed her that plain and simple English could do the communication job much more effectively and much more pleasantly than legalese!
I suppose this profound feeling of self-discovery also happens every time call-center agents steeped in one way of speaking English (often the homegrown variety taught by Filipino teachers who are nonnative English speakers) are forced to learn other ways of speaking it in terms of vocabulary, syntax, idiom, pronunciation, and intonation. For the American call-center market alone, there’s New York English, American Midwest English, California English, and so forth! There just are so many English dialects or idiolects to learn or unlearn! This, to me, is the value of reorientation seminars and refresher courses on English and so many familiar or unfamiliar things that people take for granted. They can extricate people from the time warp that they could get so firmly ensconced in under the relentless pressure of tradition, false pride, or plain smugness.