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Use and Misuse / After death - what?
« on: August 29, 2009, 12:53:15 PM »
However, if the question is asked about a particular person who’s no longer your friend (you might have parted ways) or about a friend who has died, then the two tenses in that sentence need to be changed to the past tense and past perfect, respectively: ‘What was the best thing you had ever done for [name of friend]?’
Joe, in the par above from your Times column, you use the phrase "a friend who has died". Have you noticed that English speakers almost always use "has died" instead of the more accurate - and more blunt - "is dead"?
The purists among us will argue that "had died" is a present perfect, i.e. describing an action that took place in the immediate past but with the expectation of further action on the part of the subject. Since there will be no further action on his part, the final question would be better expressed as "What was the best thing you ever did for [name of friend]?"
(It would seem that the finer aspects of the present perfect are being lost in favour of its use as simply an indicator of recent action.)
Joe, in the par above from your Times column, you use the phrase "a friend who has died". Have you noticed that English speakers almost always use "has died" instead of the more accurate - and more blunt - "is dead"?
The purists among us will argue that "had died" is a present perfect, i.e. describing an action that took place in the immediate past but with the expectation of further action on the part of the subject. Since there will be no further action on his part, the final question would be better expressed as "What was the best thing you ever did for [name of friend]?"
(It would seem that the finer aspects of the present perfect are being lost in favour of its use as simply an indicator of recent action.)